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I am a man about the business of taking care of business, minding my own business and staying out of yours. I don't care what devices people use to separate themselves from others (religion, money, race, gender, class, intelligence etc.) at the end of the day you came from the earth and so shall you return. The only advice I have is try to live and love without fear.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

"Don't I know you?"

I'm tired of people coming up to me talking that old "Don't I know you?" or "You look so familiar....." I would  understand this if this was Hollywood and paparazzi is all around you snapping pics with the people trying get a look at you but it's not. Most of the time you're just walking through Walmart or waiting for a table at a restaurant when some stranger wants to have a 5 minute conversation with you in hopes that they'll remember where they know you from. Where I live is small, but its not that small and you very well might not know half the people you see.

I can see if this exchange would end with me saying "Naw I don't think I know you....' but 9 times out of 10 it does now. People will begin to ask if I attended different schools I've never heard of, ask where I grew up at, my previous employment history. If that does not ring any bells than they'll resort to asking me if I know people from any of the places I mentioned. "You from St Louis? You know Pookie and Smoke?"

Now don't get me wrong, the attention I've received can be great sometimes but most times I feel awkward. I feel like I'm a unique human being and there is nobody out there like me but I'm constantly being accused of being or reminding someone of someone else. Do I have 101 clones running around? Am I not as different as I think I am? Or on the flip side, am I that awesome that people just want to know me? Is this how celebs feel about their personal space and privacy? I just want to go out and have a great time without being recognized sometimes. That old don't" I know you from somewhere" or you look familiar is becoming too familiar to me.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Children: How should we raise them??

A child should be raised to have basic values, a moral character and a genuine personality. One who tries to instill those things in a child early on will have the least amount of road to travel when it comes to adapting him/her in the social structure of the world.

How can you develop a child that has the moral fibers needed to control the pressure of sex, guns and chasing the almighty dollar? Is religion the right answer? Is trying to befriend your child and take the chance that they might not grow up respecting the role of a parent vs child a better way? What type of fear should a child have for their parent? I can say going from a child to having my own that there are many ways that can be effective but you have to be an example they can learn from.
"What I most remember was an abiding sense of comfort and security. I got plenty of mothering, not only from Pop and my brothers and sisters when they were home, but from the whole of our close-knit community." Singer and Actor Paul Robeson
I can remember the different styles of discipline each one of my parents used which I felt in a way created the balance and core structure of who I am today. I also feel that it takes a community to raise a child coupled with tough love. People who respect tough love will tell you how they learned a valuable lesson from it and how being reprimanded as a child helped them in their adult life. Raising children is not cut & dry and will always require a combination of different styles and methods but our parents and the generations before them had the right idea on how we should raise children. The further we deviate from the 'old school' way of child rearing, the worse off our children will become.

Monday, November 29, 2010

Free the Oppressed People of Haiti!!!


"Haiti – a country which had never had a recorded case of cholera – has been dealing with an outbreak of cholera this fall. The cholera is now rumored to have been brought into the country by UN peacekeeping troops from Nepal, which had a cholera outbreak of its own in the summer."
The Untied Nations and others have reaped the benefits and resources from the land and people of Haiti as well as other places around the world. How is it that the only free black country in the world ( free of white supremacy) until now are suffering  from disease and other elements while the richest Africans in the world stand by watching?  Why is it that the UN, the British, Chinese and Spanish military fly planes into Haiti and others aren't allowed there? How can that be? How hard is it to treat cholera? What can we do to help? Where does the money really go? Why aren't major artists talking about this? Katrina was another way to destroy our people and we still don't know the truth about what really happened with levees. 

We must change the perceptions Africans (African Americans) have about the people of Haiti. Africans don't know the power of imagery and how a negative portrayal of Haitians can effect the perception we have on our brothers and sisters there. We only hear and see negative stories and destruction surrounding the Haitians and Africans abroad and we don't have the the mindset to try to create a connection with our people of the African diaspora.

How long will we suffer and die before we see the bigger picture? Come on people...private prisons, black on black crime, white on black crimes are viewed as the norms without a question of why? I really feel that if you want change you have to die for it, not be ready to but to actually use the path our ancestors used. I don't feel that the fighting spirit of our people has died with them, I know it still lives within us. We just have to confront the demon head on. I hear the voices of our ancestors like Nat Turner, Marcus Garvey, Amos Wilson and others who were the strong examples we needed to kill white supremacy dead in it's tracks. People, we got to stand and fight for something cause we dying for nothing.

Peace and blessings.   

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Angry Women Status

 This blog is about the misconceptions  brothers are  subjected to or have to fight against  in regards to the Angry Women of the World. I feel there's a reason sisters should not care too much about the men they cannot find due to the following.

1. The sisters don't respect a brother that is not working.
2. Sisters will not admit they need help unless it's offered and then it becomes expected.
3. Sisters know that there are differences about men but will claim we are all the same.
4. They think 60% of men practice homosexual life styles.
5. They are unaware of the growing number of women who practice homosexual lifestyles.
6. Most men cheat.( Who they cheating with should also be addressed.)
7. Brothers having too many babies with different women.
8. Babydaddy drama, domestic violence and unpaid child support.
9. Sisters can't find brothers on they level.
10. They don't practice the same spirituality


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